PLEASE do not have a DTR (define the relationship) with your girl or your man when you are under the influence. I know a glass of wine, or a favorite beverage of choice, is tempting when you’re nervous but DON’T DO IT.  You may have the ability to to be more honest as usual, or even say what you need to say, but how reliable can your words truly be?  The next day you will look back and realize that it probably was not the best idea to be best friends with Jack you know who, right before you took a giant leap of conversational faith.  In the words of John Mayer, “say what you need to say” and have a little faith in yourself.  You will be fine.  If you come across different than you wanted, you can always do damage control; which is easier and more reliable if sober.  Use discretion with your words but be honest with yourself.

That is the sober truth.